Using the Correct Tool – Not everything is a nail

Abraham Maslow said in 1966, “I suppose it is tempting, if the only tool you have is a hammer, to treat everything as if it were a nail.”   I love the StrengthsFinder tool, and think it is amongst the most flexible tool around!  Priced at 10USD it is also one of the most affordable… Continue reading Using the Correct Tool – Not everything is a nail

Coaching vs. Mentoring

Many people often ponder about the difference between Coaching and Mentoring, and often times the two are used interchangeably. The roles of a coach and a mentor are really quite different although we often see coaches doing some mentoring, and mentors doing some coaching. Let’s look at coaching and mentoring separately: Mentoring Mentoring usually entails… Continue reading Coaching vs. Mentoring

Separating the problem from Identity

I recently caught up with a friend who is a counsellor, and one of the topics we touched on was on separating the problem from a person’s identity. For example, saying “I’m Diabetic” vs “I have diabetes” are two very different statements. “I’m Diabetic” brings the condition up to the level of identity, internalises it… Continue reading Separating the problem from Identity

Theme Insights – Responsibility

Here’s the description of the Responsibility Theme from the Gallup Business Journal: “Your Responsibility theme forces you to take psychological ownership for anything you commit to, and whether large or small, you feel emotionally bound to follow it through to completion. Your good name depends on it. If for some reason you cannot deliver, you… Continue reading Theme Insights – Responsibility

StrengthsFinder Singapore Network (Meetup Group)

I had the pleasure and honour of setting up Singapore’s very first and only StrengthsFinder Meetup Group, now affectionately known as the StrengthsFinder Singapore Network. Our sessions are held once a month, with a humble turnout of about 8-12 pax each time.  This allows for a more intimate discussion and in-depth discussion. What is the… Continue reading StrengthsFinder Singapore Network (Meetup Group)